Are you even aware of your thoughts and attitudes?
Use the next few days to just start acknowledging and becoming more aware when you play victim and allow "life" to take control of your attitude.
YOU get to make the choice on how you'd like to perceive and react to life, and that's where you get to take control and ownership of yourself and your life...and that my friend is real self-mastery.
Pop over to our facebook community - Society of Self-Mastery - and share some feedback on where you are currently with your attitude and awareness. Have you been allowing life to control you or are you ready to step into the driver's seat?